Benefits of Sex Toys in Relationships

Explores how sex toys can improve intimacy, overcome taboos and strengthen trust between couples.

Why is the Use of Sex Toys Becoming More Common?

The use of sex toys has become increasingly widespread and normalized as a way of enhancing a moment of pleasure and self-discovery, not only of the body, but also of tastes, through exploration alone. However, when it comes to doing it as a couple, the situation seems to get different and strange. But why? There are many beliefs that foster taboo and prejudice. Let's explore them.

Main Beliefs and Taboos Associated with Sex Toys

The Partner Replacement Belief

One of the beliefs associated with this topic is that sex toys will replace the partner or diminish their virility/femininity, which can lead to insecurities and greater distance between the couple.

Belief That Sex Toys Are Only Used When There Is No Attraction or Satisfaction

The belief that sex toys diminish sensitivity and the ability to obtain pleasure in other ways, or that they are even addictive, works as a widely disseminated myth that perpetuates taboos and misinformation

Feelings of shame and judgment

The fear of being judged or of appearing inappropriate can similarly generate embarrassment around the idea of including sex toys in the relationship, making the subject difficult to broach.

How Can Sex Toys Strengthen a Relationship?

Intensifying the Connection Between the Couple 

Couples who communicate their needs, listen to each other's needs and are committed to understanding each other experience a greater level of happiness. And sex toys can help achieve this goal by promoting intimacy and sexual satisfaction.

Discovering New Erogenous Zones and Pleasures

In addition, exploration through sex toys can introduce new sensations to the relationship, in the form of novelty, which will help to break the routine and reduce monotony. As well as alone as a couple, the use of sex toys can also contribute to the discovery of new erogenous zones and innovative forms of individual and/or mutual pleasure.

The Importance of Communication and Trust in the Use of Sex Toys

The Role of Open and Respectful Dialogue

Dialogue, transparency and trust are essential! Talking about this topic in a constructive, open and honest way, expressing each other's wishes and preferences, increases mutual trust, brings the couple closer together and helps to deconstruct associated beliefs.

How to Start the Sex Toy Conversation with Your Partner

It is important to remember that the use of sex toys should be a consensual and comfortable decision for both of you, ensuring that each of you feels safe, that your limits are respected and that your concerns are heard. Honoring individual rhythms not only strengthens the bond of trust between the couple, but also guarantees a more pleasurable and enjoyable experience.

Types of Sex Toys Recommended for Couples

Nowadays there is a huge variety of sex toys, from vibrators, clitoral stimulators, male masturbators, dildos, bondage products, among others, each with its own particularities and functions, allowing the couple to personalize their experience.

At 2Link it is possible to order a Couple Box, an exclusive, completely discreet erotic box that allows the selection of sex toys according to the preferences and needs of each couple.

Psychological and Physical Benefits of Using Sex Toys

Stress and Anxiety Reduction

This type of experience, combined with a relaxed, free and safe environment, helps to reduce stress and anxiety, culminating in positive impacts on well-being and mental health.

Increased self-esteem and self-confidence

If we add to this environment mutual acceptance, non-judgment and the desire to explore one's own body and the body of one's partner, there are significant benefits in terms of self-esteem, self-image, self-confidence, ease of enjoying the moment and, consequently, reaching orgasm.

How to Buy Sex Toys Safely and Discreetly

To guarantee a safe and discreet experience, it's important to choose stores that offer quality products and preserve customers' privacy.

2Linkintimacy, for example, offers a personalized experience with Couple Box, guaranteeing the selection of sex toys according to the preferences and needs of each couple, delivered in a totally confidential manner.

Conclusion: Joint Exploration and Mutual Pleasure Are Fundamental

Sex toys are a tool to intensify the connection, but the basis of the relationship, i.e. trust, respect and communication, must already be consolidated. Exploring them as a couple can promote greater intimacy and sexual satisfaction, but it is essential that the use is consensual and comfortable for both.

In the end, what really matters is mutual well-being and building a relationship based on communication and respect.

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This article was developed by Tânia Dinis, a psychologist with experience in the field of relationships and intimacy.

With an approach focused on open communication, deconstructing taboos and self-knowledge, Tânia supports people in exploring their individuality in a healthy and enriching way.

To find out more about her work, follow her on Instagram or book an appointment using this form and discover how you can strengthen your relationship with the support of an experienced and specialized professional.